What do we mean by “disenfranchised grief.” It’s when your experience of grief is different than the general cultural attitudes about “justified” pain regarding death and loss or “acceptable” mourning practices. Being out of “the norm” in your grief experience often tend to exacerbate the pain as people can feel very alone.
In this conversation, Candace Opper talks about her experience losing a childhood acquaintance to suicide and how this event stayed with her for decades.
About Candace Opper
Candace Jane Opper is a writer, a mother, and a visual artist. She is the author of Certain and Impossible Events, an investigative memoir about the lasting impact of adolescent suicide, selected by Cheryl Strayed for the Kore Press Memoir Award. Her writing has appeared in Guernica, Longreads, Narratively, Literary Hub, Brevity, Creative Nonfiction, Bright Wall/Dark Room, and Vestoj, among others. She holds an MFA in creative writing from Portland State University and is the recipient of a Creative Nonfiction Fellowship. She grew up in the woods of Southern Connecticut and now lives in Pittsburgh with her husband and son.
Show Notes
BOOK “Certain and Impossible Events” on surviving adolescent suicide - https://www.amazon.com/Certain-Impossible-Events-Candace-Opper/dp/1888553936
WEBSITE
SOCIAL
https://twitter.com/candaceopper
https://www.instagram.com/candaceopper/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/candace-opper-00915141/
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PRESS
Heart-Shaped Box, Review in Bookforum
How Adolescent Suicide Shaped Candace Jane Opper And Her Debut Memoir, ‘Certain And Impossible Events,’ Review in The Pittsburgh Current
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